August 9, 2012 4:09 AM PDT
I think it's fair to share honest thoughts and emotions, even in a relatively public forum, without fear of being criticized for it. We are all here to share experiences, learn from the success and mistakes of others, and sometimes field a question or two. Tweek, your'e dilemma is obviously a fairly common one, and I applaud your candid reactions. Of course, as others have pointed out, there's no real answer, certainly nothing that anyone can point to as "right" or "wrong". personally, I'm not a religious person, and don't really care what any group has to say about my behavior -- we can only best be guided by what feels right staring in the mirror each morning. Simple pleasures, even those maybe frowned on by pious folk, are sometimes what makes life worth all the hassles and hurt. Find a nice guy, someone who can respect being in your company, and have some fun! It doesn't have to be Mr. Right. Who the hell knows that for sure going into any relationship? Each of us have had someone we thought might be forever and had it fall apart after a week , a month, a year. It's all a big crapshoot...
